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Comments for CatholicCourtship Blog https://thecatholiccourtship.org Guiding Catholic Hearts | Insights for Purposeful Courtship Fri, 15 Nov 2024 18:19:12 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.2 Comment on Quiet Ladies: Don’t be Ashamed of Being Quiet! by Christine Mako https://thecatholiccourtship.org/quiet-ladies-dont-be-ashamed-of-being-quiet/#comment-40 Tue, 05 Nov 2024 19:19:59 +0000 https://thecatholiccourtship.org/?p=9249#comment-40 In reply to Rachel.

Hey Rachel,

Yes, that is such a valuable thought! I don’t believe in changing your personality just to appear more interesting. If someone really likes you, he’ll go the extra mile to get to know you.

So, yes, don’t change, please. The world needs your personality!

]]> Comment on Quiet Ladies: Don’t be Ashamed of Being Quiet! by Rachel https://thecatholiccourtship.org/quiet-ladies-dont-be-ashamed-of-being-quiet/#comment-32 Thu, 31 Oct 2024 20:07:10 +0000 https://thecatholiccourtship.org/?p=9249#comment-32 Thank you for not saying change everything about yourself. Am more introverted by nature and typically like to listen and only talk when I have something real to say. Most of the advice I get especially on the dating front is “well you just need to completely change your personality.” “Ignore your natural instincts and become outgoing.” But I don’t want to meet someone and be lying to them about who I am. I want someone to fall in love with me for being me and not being someone else.

Will also add another piece of advice. Give the introverts a chance. We may not be the life of the party but often when we know you genuinely want to get to know us as a person and you put some effort into getting to know us the walls break down pretty quickly. It may take a bit of time and effort at first but trust me it will be worth it in the end. As the introvert I found that most people don’t want to give us a chance. Most people talk over us when we try to engage in the conversation (both in group friendship setting or dating settings).

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